WHY IT'S SO HARD FOR SOMEONE TO UNDERSTAND US...

WHY IT’S SO HARD FOR SOMEONE TO UNDERSTAND US…

In life….it’s not necessary for everything to work according to our own will. Many situations do arises in a certain way that it’s not possible to mould it according to our own way.

Life always puts so many hurdles to pass through. It accompanies so many obstacles in the way that it really makes a tight spot in life.


Sometimes in life, some incidents or happenings do leave a deep impact on our lives forever. They also leads to a huge impact on our mental health. If we have a very happy and peaceful encounter with it, then it leads to a huge positive impact on our life. But..If we experience something so dreadful even since from our childhood times, then it can leave a long lasting impression and makes a negative impact on our mind and lives forever for. Such happenings not only makes us concerned for future but also traumatise us mentally and emotionally. Such events are somewhat the basic reasons for suffering from the depression and anxiety.


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Some circumstances do arrives in a way in which we are not able to deal with it and feel the guilt for it. Even if the fault is not of us, but still we ought to take the blame for it. That’s what makes us feel vulnerable and lose confidence from self. Even if we haven’t done anything wrong or just did a small piece of mistake which is ignorable, even then too somehow it’s only we who gets blamed for it.

It somehow just becomes so inexplicable to understand. But it somehow goes in the same way.

And the biggest mistake is….that we just imbibe it and accept it. In that way, we just carry out the burden of some issues for which we are lessly solely responsible.

Now that’s the biggest mistake we do in our lives. We accept the things as the way they are with a apologetically mindset even if we haven’t committed it or are less responsible for it .... 

....WHICH IS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE WE DO!!


It’s good to realize self mistake if we are solely responsible… but not at the times in which the other person is equally responsible for it.

It really creates a big difference between the ones. It really doesn’t makes the ones to realize the self mistake and just they make the other person totally responsible for it!!

In that case it’s obviously becomes so hard to understand each other. Even if they both knows who is the guilty one, even then they hardly try to imbibe the fact and accept it. This becomes the root cause for the confusion, misconception, miscommunication and misunderstanding between the ones on a vast level.

Sometimes the things are not just about to have a compromise with the person and make self responsible for the issue or cause, even if we are not the guilty one. In some situations it becomes necessary and pretty obvious to make the other person realise their own mistakes.

Even if it’s not working out, it’s better to make a distance from them for your betterment.

It’s always better to conserve your energy and time rather than explaining yourself and the thing. It’s not necessary that the other person would resonate and agree with you, and would think in the same manner as the way you do.

So, it’s better to stop explaining self to those who don’t even want to consider the matter in a serious and sensible manner. It’s not good to explain yourself to them whole heartedly until it reflects and affects on your mental health.

You know if it’s not you then you shouldn’t worry at all. Don’t try to explain self and disturb your mental health on account of others. Don’t let to lose your inner peace and calm for explaining self to others. Because in the last no one will bother, it will only be you who will suffer the most. It will affect you physically, mentally and even emotionally. So, bothering for others rather than thinking about self who don’t even care for your words is just a waste of time.

The ones who are responsible for creating such scenes and issues will one day realise self guilt for it.


“TRY TO BE HAPPY AND PEACEFUL FOR YOUR OWN SELF AND MAINTAIN A DISTANCE FROM THOSE WHO DON’T EVEN VALUE THE WORDS AND RESPECT FOR OTHERS BEFORE THEIR OWN PRESTIGE AND PROUD..”

“ONLY WHAT YOU NEED IS TIME AND PATIENCE.. TIME WILL SHOW YOUR WORTH TO THEM”


HAPPY READING !! 

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